That’s right. I said it. Is it even possible? How will we survive? Will my children’s brains still grow and thrive? I wondered this when my son started kindergarten and stated that he was done with Kindermusik. He still had one more year to complete the entire series. What about Miss Allison? What about me? Did my five year old take any of OUR feelings into account? I was heartbroken but it was clear he was ready to move on and if I wanted his love for music to continue to flow I really had to respect his wishes.
What I learned about a month after school started was that he just needed to use his musical brain in other ways. He was practicing shapes and patterns one night at the kitchen table for homework when I glanced over and saw something amazing. He was making music with math. (Only a trained Kindermusik mom would notice this.)
His repetitive patterns with numbers sounded musical when I read them aloud. It was more than just the typical 1-2-1-2-1-2. It had rhythm. I sent it to Miss Allison, our local Kindermusik scientific music specialist. She also saw the beat and just for fun sent back the numbers in musical alphabet.
My kindergartener, without knowing, was continuing to make music. His brain still retained his Kindermusik knowledge. I played the mathematical notes on the recorder with the joy of one discovering the cure for the common cold. He just snubbed his nose at me before dumping a pile of Legos on the floor. I smiled. There IS life after Kindermusik.
My kindergartener is not physically going to Kindermusik classes any more but after five years it was time for his brain to move on. His brain was remembering and using what he learned for more than just silly dances and colorful shakers.
My anxiety decreased as I held his little brother’s hand to his first session of Imagine That. The baby was now off to learn music in his own space, with his own friends. Practicing his own independence. Kissing time was a quick peck on the cheek as he ran by sideways. On the way out the door I looked back . Those baby snuggle days were over, but watching the singing and silly dancing happening at that moment without me was not the end.
Kindermusik was not just for the kids. It’s been music for all of us. We will still make up songs and dance silly in our own ways at home. When classes are over at the end of the day, the music goes on. At bedtime my boys, 6 and 4 years old, still wait for mama to give snuggles and sing “Hush Little Baby and Ally Bally.” Life after Kindermusik? Absolutely!
-posted by Kindermusik mama Heidi Forrester, whose children now want to learn the electric guitar and the bassoon.
















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