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Nov
8

Brain Rules—Exploration is natural for babies (and grown-ups)!

Posted in Child Development

I keep trying to return John Medina’s book, Brain Rules: 12 Principles for Surviving at Thriving at Work, Home, and School to the library. But I still have it—because it’s just too interesting. So, I’ve added a fourth blog to this series. And there may be more if this book continues to stubbornly stay on my bed stand. (And yes, I should and probably will buy my own copy.)

This final chapter in Medina’s book is on the innate exploratory nature of human beings. It starts at birth.  Babies are little scientists, he explains.  Their behavior from the womb is driven by their curiosity.  He describes how he did an experiment with his newborn, discovering that this little baby would imitate his dad when he stuck out his tongue—at 30 minutes old.  Mirror neurons residing in the brain are “cells whose activity reflects their surroundings.” In other words, our brains have cells that allow us to quickly imitate a behavior we have seen for the first time. That’s some fast track learning.

But according to Medina, our brains are meant to continue to explore for a lifetime. “Researchers have shown that some regions of the adult brain stay as malleable as a baby’s brain, so we can grow new connections, strengthen exiting connections and even create new neurons, allowing all of us to be lifelong learners.” Most of us know some of these amazing senior citizens whose brains can run circles around their juniors.  My aunt was one of those. Curious until her body failed, she was a classic addicted-to-learning person. And she was so fun to be around because she was so alive.  She asked questions and made interesting observations and had great sense of humor too.  Her brain was making new neural connections until it quit.  I’m convinced of it.

The fuel for all learning is curiosity.  Medina points us back to children. They are inherently curious. They are constant learners. During most of their early years, they are “little scientists,” Medina explains. They are asking questions, forming hypothesis, conducting experiments, noting the results and repeating them.  For example: What will happen if I push my bowl of spaghetti off the edge of the tray?  There it goes!  That was fun. I got a lot of attention and I liked how the sound and the way the stuff flew. I wonder what will happen if I do that again?

A sense of wonder or curiosity is the final subject of Medina’s book. He believes it is the most important brain rule of all!  As a research scientist and educator, his passion is learning.  He was encouraged by his mother to stoke the fuel of his curiosity, and he has. And he wants us to as well, in how we raise our children, run our businesses and develop our education system. If we follow the science of brain rules, we’ll find joy, he concludes.

“For little ones, discovery brings joy. Like an addictive drug, exploration increases the need for more discovery so that more joy can be experienced. It’s a straight up reward system that, if allowed to flourish, will continue into the school years. As children get older, they find that learning not only brings them joy, but it also brings them mastery. Expertise in specific subjects breeds the confidence to take intellectual risks. If these kids don’t end up in the emergency room, they may end up with a Nobel Prize.”

Thanks for a great book, John. I learned a lot!

-posted by Donna Detweiler, who finds homeschooling is a sneaky way to keep on learning as an adult.

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Nov
1

Embracing Change

Posted in Bits and Pieces

“Not all change is good, but change is a natural part of life and must be welcomed.”  Dennis R. Miller

Change happens, doesn’t it?  Like it or not, it is a normal part of life. Big and little changes abound. Deciduous leaves flame and fall. A longstanding company in the community has to close its doors.  A friend moves away. A favorite TV show is discontinued.  As some clever person remarked, change is the only constant in life.

In my last blog I wrote about big changes in my life. Finding a mate and becoming a parent required me to learn to “Accept Change.” Admittedly, it was a humbling, messy time of life, but the outcome was worth it.

Fast forward ten years. I was invited to go to Israel with a friend on her church’s tour.  It took some faith to go—leave the kids for two weeks, figure out the finances.  Frankly, it would have been more comfortable to stay home.  But I felt compelled to go.  I didn’t know it at the time, but a new season was opening up—a season of not just accepting change, but throwing open my arms and welcoming it.  In this season of life, I was being invited to “Embrace Change.”  I sensed it. And at the airport on the way home, I saw a sign—literally. 

The year following the trip to Israel proved my hunch.  My husband and I had been discussing his twenty-year-old dream to pursue his proven talents as an artist.  We felt it was time to act.  While still keeping his day job as a pastor, he converted his office into a studio and began to paint the twenty pictures needed for a portfolio.  We took a trip to visit graduate schools and found the one he liked in my friend’s town during a reunion of the Israel tour! He was accepted and we sold our house and moved there one year after that fateful party.  Crazy!

Embracing change has meant welcoming the unknown. I have embraced the adventure. I knew I’d feel uncomfortable at times, and I have. I have focused more on what we’ve gained than what we left behind.  We’ve made new friends and kept the old. We have exercised our faith plenty.

In these seasons of life, I’ve learned to accept change in order to grown and to embrace change as a welcome friend.  Might as well because I understand change is here to stay!

-posted by Donna Detweiler, who is wondering what sign she will see next!

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Oct
21

Accepting Change

Posted in Bits and Pieces

“There is a beginning and ending to everything.  We need to welcome changes and look for the opportunities they provide.”  –Dennis Miller

Change is a deep subject to write about. I’ve been pondering it for decades because I’ve had lots of big changes in my life.  And so have most of you. It is the rare person whose life stays the same for long.  Sometimes we choose change.  Often change chooses us. Like it or not, change happens.

When we’re young, we crave change. The season of youth is about adventure.  Adventure and change go together. Both welcome the unknown.  Older human beings are notorious for “settling into routine.” My 90-year-old grandmother religiously ate a ½ of a banana for breakfast every Tuesday. When we went out for Chinese food, she would pick up the menu and say, “Now what would everyone like?”  But we all knew by the time the waitress came, we would be ordering her four favorite dishes.  As we grow older, many of us seem to crave the known.

But change is the nature of life.  Doors close and windows open.  We might as well get used to it!

Some changes are bothersome, but no big deal.  Like learning to use the new cell phone. Or going a different way to work when the bridge is out. But other changes turn our world upside down.  Going off to college, getting married, having children, losing a parent, losing a job or home, facing a serious illness. These and many others are the life changes that call on us to change deep inside.  They can be exciting and welcome, but also scary, uncomfortable or even painful.  The bottom line is that life will never be the same afterwards. And neither will we. That’s real change.

I’m not a change pro.  While I’m reasonably adventuresome, when it comes to the big stuff, I’m fearful. Not surprisingly, my whole dating-to-marriage-process was messy. I dated a lot of men, and eventually bailed out of each relationship because of my fears. After a particularly painful breakup, I was ashamed and discouraged.  I went off by myself for an extended time of journaling and prayer in hopes of getting some clarity on this out-of-whack area of my life. Much to my surprise, I came away with clarity.  “Accept Change,” was the impression that came to me so strongly I looked around to see who had spoken those words. Two years later, I married a man who was very different than the man I thought I’d marry—a very unrealistic ideal I’d latched onto.  Until these words changed my perspective, I was too afraid to accept any man’s invitation into the inevitable changes marriage brings.

Marriage provides plenty of opportunities to accept change.  As you learned, my husband and I come from very different backgrounds. Jon’s father was old-order Amish until he was 21.  My father graduated from Cornell University. My family skied in Colorado one Christmas.  One Christmas, all Jon got was a pair of mittens!  While we have enough common interests and soulish connection to glue us together, we have given each other many opportunities for broader life experience. We’ve changed a lot but it has been painful at times. During our first year of marriage, I told my sister, “I feel like I’ve gone to camp and I never get to come home again.”  But as is the case with most summer camps, after the initial homesickness, you never want to go home. You have changed!

My husband and I decided that if marriage is like graduate school program for change, parenting is the PhD. When our first child was born, my professional working days transitioned to full-time motherhood.  While I was glad to be home, I’d been at my job for 14 years and was used to leading small groups, speaking, teaching, travel and conferences.  The world of babies was completely foreign to me.  And as most stay-home-mothers will admit, being home with a baby full-time is a lot harder than going to work.  My life was changing again and this new 24/7 responsibility weighed heavily. I called my sister again. “I feel like I’m wearing a backpack and I never get to take it off the rest of my life!” I said, with my flair for the dramatic surfacing again. But as parents know, even on the worst days, I wouldn’t want out of the program. The change was mighty uncomfortable on sleepless nights, but oh, so worth it!

“The end of something is difficult.  The beginning of something new is difficult.  We need to look for the possibilities.” –Dennis Miller

Soon I’ll post the 2nd part of this blog – all about embracing change.

-posted by Donna Detweiler, who is glad that changes in her life have forced her to keep growing!

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Oct
13

Brain Rules: Every Brain is Wired Differently!

Posted in Child Development, parenting

By the time I finished reading this chapter of John Medina’s interesting science-for-dummies book, Brain Rules: 12 Principles for Surviving and Thriving at Work, Home, and School, I was scribbling notes frantically and reading quotes to my twelve-year-old son who was with me at Starbucks.  I’m slightly suspicious that my decaf mocha wasn’t really decaf, nonetheless, it was one of my favorite chapters in the book. It has so many implications for educating our children with finesse and gives hope for greater success.

The chapter on how our brains become wired is mind blowing.  That’s a bad pun, but it’s true!  As learning takes place, neural connections blow apart, or split, creating new connections. Like a highway system continually under construction, more learning equals more complex neural connections crisscrossing the brain. More is good! Medina points out interesting research done on the brains of violin performers for example.  Their brains resembled Seattle’s Spaghetti Bowl (For you non-Seattle readers, it is a complex section of highway on and off ramps south of town.)

It all starts at infancy, when the brain is hyper-developing.  A three-year-old’s brain has two to three times the neural connections in specific regions.  But he doesn’t get to keep them.  Interestingly, by the time the child reaches eight, his brain development is “pruned” and back to normal.  Then in puberty, another phase of frenetic neural growth happens until age 18 is reached. Doesn’t that explain a lot!

Just as kids come in all shapes and sizes in spite of age, Medina is quick to point out that brains develop as uniquely as bodies.  Early and late bloomers are encompassed in “normal,” even with respect to the brain. However, what we learn creates a unique neural configuration. So our brains are customized based on our experiences, like the violin player’s.  The modern science of brain mapping, where scientists can track the neurons firing (called “lighting up”), showed that even twins have individualized brains because of their unique responses to similar events.

Messy World of Brain Development

Every brain learns differently, concludes Medina and other brain researchers.  One neurosurgeon, Howard Gardner, wrote a book about his findings. Called Frames of Mind; the Theory of Multiple Intelligences, Gardner suggests other intelligences besides the old IQ measurement exist. His list includes: Verbal/linguistic, musical/rhythmic, logical/math, spatial, bodily/kinesthetic, interpersonal/intrapersonal, and nature.  Logically, different brain configurations would equal different skill sets. Brain surgeon, George Ojemann, maps brains and then does surgery to allow epileptic patients to get relief from seizures. As he stimulates different regions of the brain to find the trouble areas, he has observed that no universal regions for specific functions exist in the brain. That means that approximately 7 billion unique brains inhabit planet earth today.

Brain research merely reveals something we parents and teachers already know.  There are no two kids under our roofs, in our classrooms, or in our neighborhoods that are exactly alike. And as we pour our hearts into educating our kids to the best of our abilities, it is a very inexact science.  Medina concludes that exact thing:  “The ability to understand the interior motivations of someone else and the ability to construct a predictable theory of how their mind works based on that knowledge” is what is needed to help students learn.  We need to be students of our students!  And that takes time and proximity.  As we live and work with our kids, experience will help us discern the best ways for “teaching to be transformed into learning.”

Remember my failed experience teaching my daughter about Johnny Appleseed?  What I’ve learned about brain wiring tells me that it’s ok that my kid’s learning process is messy. My daughter’s singular after-class memory of “Jerry Somebody” provides clues into how her brain works. As I continue to observe how she learns best, it will lead to more insights and a better learning experience. My expectations are shifting as I understand there are no teaching formulas.  Finesse and success will come with experience.  And that’s what has given me an excitement equaling a coffee buzz!

-posted by Donna Detweiler, who finds the uniqueness of brains both exhilarating and exasperating!

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Oct
7

Brain Rules: We Don’t Pay Attention to Boring Things!

Posted in Education, Family, parenting

One infamous evening, our family was gathered around the dinner table. That day, I had taught a home school lesson on Johnny Appleseed.  I told how he walked barefoot across the Midwest, planting apple trees and giving seeds to settlers.  We watched the Disney cartoon of Johnny’s life.  We made an apple craft.  We baked apple turnovers and ate them. That evening at dinner, I proudly asked my 2nd grader to tell her dad about what we had studied that day.  She paused.  “Uh, I don’t know,” she replied, rather bored. “I think we learned about Jerry somebody.”

Obviously I failed to grab my daughter’s attention that day. What could I have done to stimulate her learning? That is the subject of Brain Rule #4 from John Medina’s science-made-understandable book, Brain Rules. He explains the simple concept that better attention equals better learning.

So how does the brain pay attention? The normal, daily function of the brain is called “Intrinsic Alertness,” according to theorist Michael Posner, whose research Medina quotes.  The brain is looking around, taking in the environment, noting anything unusual.  When something out of the ordinary is detected, the “Orienting Network” of the brain takes over causing it to absorb the new information.  We respond to what is unusual by looking, listening or perhaps moving to get more information.  Next the “Executive Network” of the brain causes us to decide how to react. We jump, scream, talk, or maybe do nothing.

When I began to teach my daughter’s class on Johnny Appleseed that day, her brain was in “Intrinsic Alertness.”  She saw her friends, a teacher, paper, pencils, a map, craft supplies—the normal Tuesday school routine.  What was missing was a stimulus to arouse her attention.  None of the activities caused her to take in the new information.  However, imagine if I’d arranged for a large barefoot man wearing a pot on his head to unexpectedly saunter into the classroom and hand out apple seeds.  Her “Orienting Network” would have fired up to process this new information. I doubt she’d have called him “Jerry somebody” after that!

The brain attends to emotions.  Medina teaches us that we remember events that are tied to emotions much more vividly and for a longer time than neutral events.  While my daughter had fun doing the activities that day, she obviously didn’t give a rip.  Medina explains that when the brain detects an “emotionally charged event,” a chemical called dopamine is released into the system. Dopamine is essential in memory and information processing. Imagine the effect if Johnny Appleseed had walked in the door! The chemical release would have created a lasting impression. As it was, the information she heard was no more memorable than the garbage truck rumbling by on its daily route. Her attention was never aroused.

In Brain Rule #4, John Medina teaches us how to understand the brain’s capacity to pay attention and not pay attention.  As a parent and teacher, I’ve learned a lot that I will use in my own learning as well as teaching my kids.  Truth is, neither of us pay much attention to boring things!

-posted by Donna Detweiler, whose “Orienting Network” was evidently never activated in Geology 101—zzzzzzz.

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