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Jul
8

Music and “21st Century Skills”

Posted in Child Development, Music and the brain

If you’re a parent with children in school, you’ve likely heard about something called “21st Century Skills”. It’s one of those buzzwords that are created as education is revamped and redirected.  (I remember being part of the “New Math” experiment in Elementary School.)

Really, the core subjects our children need to learn hasn’t changed. But our world has changed, and we need to help our kids to be ready to meet these different challenges. Math competency is still vital for an engineering job, but employers want creativity, teamwork, critical thinking skills, accountability and adaptability. They want their employees to be self-directed and have the ability to communicate well. (Be that email, conference call, written reports or in person.)

Here’s a brief excerpt from The Partnership for 21st Century Skills:

Learning Skills: “To cope with the demands of the 21st century,” the report states, “students need to know more than core subjects. They need to know how to use their knowledge and skills-by thinking critically, applying knowledge to new situations, analyzing information, comprehending new ideas, communicating, collaborating, solving problems, and making decisions.”

I recently provided commentary during a podcast with Michael Butera, the Executive Director of MENC (Music Educator’s National Conference) about this subject.

I’ll come right to the main point: Music provides students the skills they need to not only succeed in school, but in life. Back to this in a moment.

No one denies that music holds a great attraction for us as human beings. I look to my own 11 year old, who (if I didn’t occasionally pull them out to speak to him) I fear his ear buds would grow permanently attached.

Music is a life-long endeavor. How many times did you hear someone say to their math teacher, “But when in real life am I ever going to need to calculate the collision point of two trains, one going 120 mph and the other 27 mph?” But a child who plays piano will often be found 25 years later on the floor with their own children singing and making music.

Many of you have told me that your children are geniuses. (I kid you not. I hear it all the time.) And that may be so. But there are many children who don’t burst onto the school scene shining brilliantly and there are certainly many who struggle.

But what I love about music is that everyone can participate. Students who don’t experience academic success in the classroom can often experience success in the music. Maybe for the first time they can flourish and grow.

When a child gains confidence with their music success, they take that confidence (along with the academic and critical thinking and teamwork and social skills (remember the list above?) they learned from music into all sorts of other areas of their life. Success breeds success. And research already has proven those students who are involved in music do better at math, reading, and even sports, and are less likely to drop out of school.

For you parents of genius children (I’m not making fun of you, since I have genius children of my own…), here’s some things you may want to know:

The majority of people who go into medical school are musicians. The same is true in general for students who pursue higher education. The National GPA is also higher for students who are involved in music.

Back to the main point. Music provides students the skills they need to not only succeed in school, but in life. We all want to prepare our kids to be happy, independent, successful grownups. It doesn’t matter if they become lawyers or farmers. In today’s world, the skills they need are universal. Music is a joyous way to help them reach their full potential.

Here’s the podcast in it’s entirety.

-posted by Miss Analiisa, who has always wanted to learn to play the cello, and has decided that it’s never too late to teach an old Euphonium player new tricks, so she’s going to start this fall.

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Feb
16

Stop and Smell the Roses

Posted in Bits and Pieces

Addison stopping to smell the flowers!

It seems I’m always struggling against the rush…the rush to get out the door in the morning, the rush to get to the next appointment, the rush to get through dinner and baths and bedtime. And with my second child, Addison, who always wants to be just like her older sister, there is now the added rush to grow up. It’s easy to get caught in the rush and forget to stop and smell the roses.

After reflecting on our ever-present urge to hurry, I have realized that one of the few remaining islands of unhurried calm in our lives is our participation in Kindermusik…well, if you don’t count the rush to get there on time. With Kindermusik, I’ve never felt pressure to rush from one level to the next. And as Addison got closer and closer to moving on to Imagine That, her first drop-off class, I found myself wanting to stretch it out as long as possible, knowing my time as a parent participant would soon end.

Our older daughter, Jaeden, warms very slowly to new situations. For her, we saw great benefit in giving her the time to experience each level fully before moving on. But, even with Addison, who needs much less time to adjust to new situations, the extra time we stayed in Our Time before moving up to Imagine That was well worth it.

When she started Our Time as an 18-month-old, she watched and listened attentively. As a two-year-old, she cautiously participated, gradually expanding her skills and sense of adventure. But, as a three-and-a-half-year-old, not only could she comfortably do everything, she experienced the responsibility of being a leader. Waiting those extra few months before switching classes solidified her confidence and gave her the ability to participate more fully.

Today, on our way to class, Addison said to me, “I don’t have to be scared to go to my drop-off class. I’m a big girl and I know my teacher. It’s Miss Allison.” Then she hugged me at class, said goodbye, and sat herself down in the circle. I’m glad we waited, even when she towered over all of the other kids in her Our Time class and had been asking to move on. There is comfort for me, as a parent, in knowing that she is truly ready, truly happy, and truly willing to take her next step. So even in all the rush, I am grateful that we remembered to stop and smell the roses just a little longer with Kindermusik. We hope this inspires you to enjoy the roses in your own life and to let go of some of the rush.

- posted by Erika M. Kapur, whose oldest daughter is wishing there was more time to enjoy the roses and this wasn’t her last year of Kindermusik.

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Oct
2

Shouldn’t my child be only with children his own age?

Posted in Child Development, parenting

I often get questions from parents who are wonder if having the “oldest” or the “youngest” child in a Kindermusik class is not a good idea. From experience as a teacher, and also as a Kindermusik mom, I say it’s the BEST idea. In fact, I’ve made sure over the years that I’ve put my children in classes (at the age-appropriate level, of course), where they can experience both situations.

I now know that the experts agree with what my instinct always told me was the right choice. (I suppose I’m an expert by this point in my career, but I don’t have the all-important PhD behind my name!) From a child development aspect, research shows us it is important for a child to be both the youngest and the oldest in a class.

Being the Oldest
As the oldest in a multi-age group, your child will have more occasions to practice nurturing skills, re-teach learned skills and feel competent. As an oldest child, her confidence is built when she becomes the one who models for the littler ones, and as the leader, is more likely to venture out and try new ideas of her own.

Prosocial behaviors, such as help-giving, sharing and taking turns are elicited in the older children, and a climate of cooperation with both younger and older children. Your child will have have more opportunity to hone his problem-solving skills than in a homogenous group. In fact, one study showed that the more heterogeneous the group, the more likely the older children were to display fine motor play, which is directly related to pre-writing skills.older-younger-children

Being the Youngest
Peter Gray, a research professor of psychology at Boston College said something I love. He says, “We adults flatter ourselves when we think that we are the best models, guides, and teachers for children. Children are much more interested in other children than in us. Children are especially interested in, and ready to learn from, those others who are a little older than themselves, a little farther along in their development, but not too far along.”

As the youngest in a multi-age group, your child will model behavior after the older children in the class. It’s not just  random “copying”. They watch, think about what they see, and then integrate what they learn into their own actions in ways that make sense to them.

Younger children also learn by listening to the older children speak, even when they are not interacting with them. By hearing the more complex language of older children (but is not too sophisticated), they expand their own vocabularies.

How it applies to Kindermusik
So, now you know the benefits of being both the youngest and oldest in a Kindermusik class, even if the age spread is only 6 months in Village (which is HUGE developmentally), or 2 years in an Imagine That class. But, how are the activities in class appropriate for all the possible developmental levels in that class?

Here’s an example of how a multi-age class works (though the same principle can be applied for any age or other circumstances). In Village (newborn to 18 months), the teacher provides choices and options for each class activity so that children can participate and learn at their own level.  For example, in the first week of class, they’ll explore sandblocks.  Younger babies will be able to explore the feel and texture of them and listen to the grown-ups tap and scratch them together.The older children will be ready to begin to develop eye hand coordination and tap them together.

They’ll also play “Peek-a-boo” with brightly colored scarves.  Young babies will watch as the grown-ups move the scarves.  Older children will be able to “find” mom hiding under the scarf, grasp it, and pull it off. Younger children will observe the older ones, and learn new skills by imitating them.

-posted by Miss Analiisa, who hopes that you are able to provide your children with a balance of opportunities to be both leaders and followers!

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Feb
1

The Sprouts of Leadership

Posted in Child Development, Things to do

seed_sproutA few blogs ago, Miss Allison wrote about planting the seeds of leadership in her classroom.  My youngest, Natalie, was a recipient of that careful sowing. Over the last couple weeks of the semester, Miss Allison would hand each caregiver/child team a humongous scarf and turn on “All Around the Kitchen” or sing “Sugar and Tea”, and the grownups and children (each pair holding onto their own end of the scarf) would take turns being the “leader” all around the classroom. You should have seen the children’s faces light up when they realized they got to be the “boss”. The fact that Mommy and Daddy are “the bosses” at home has been a difficult idea to accept at our house lately. Poor child. She’s the youngest of three, and just really wants to be the boss of something!

A few days ago at our house, Natalie brings me a red humongous scarf and hands me one end. She begins singing, “Lead through that sugar and tea, and lead through the candy…” and then takes off at breakneck speed through the house, pulling me along, utterly delighted that she could be the boss, so to speak. She spent the entire day taking turns in leading or following her brothers or her dad or me with the scarf.

The next day I tried some scaffolding with her. Scaffolding is an interactive learning process. I copy her idea, (when it was my turn to lead, I went in the same path around the house she had led me in), and then I made a slight variation on the activity. This provided  appropriate challenges to bring her to new levels of learning. (When I was leader, I crawled under the table and around the chairs– and behold – a whole  world of ideas opened up for her about where she could go with me on the “following” end of the scarf).

Scaffolding enabled her to begin to think about new ways she could lead. The next day, (yes, we’ve been doing this for a lot of days now…) when it was her turn to lead, she began to move different ways. For instance, she took 3 jumps, and then turned around to make sure that I jumped, just like her.

Through play, I can begin to give my daughter the tools to be a creative, resourceful leader. This skill will assist her in becoming an adult who is an innovator, in whatever field she chooses.

So with a scarf (or a robe belt or a piece of fabric, or whatever you have handy), and go find a child who wants to be “the boss”. (Really, that shouldn’t be too hard. I have three here at home if you can’t find one at your house!). Turn on a piece of music and have fun learning to lead.

Here are some ideas for music:

All Around the Kitchen – Milk and Cookies, CD2 #9
Lead Through that Sugar and Tea – Milk and Cookies, CD2 #17
Come Follow – Dew Drops #10
Follow My Leader to London Town – Away We Go, CD2, #20

-posted by Miss Analiisa, who thinks after all this, Natalie will grow up to be the boss of something!

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Jan
23

Planting the Seeds of Leadership

Posted in Bits and Pieces, Child Development, Our Time

planting-seedsAs a teacher of young children I plant seeds: seeds of literacy, problem solving, social competency and emotional stability.  But, I didn’t know I was planting the seeds of future leadership abilities, until we started playing Follow The Leader.  In the last couple of weeks I’ve seen remarkable changes in the students in my Our Time classes through playing this simple age-old game.  

At first, some children were unable to lead their parent through the classroom at all.  But in just one week, they are now dragging them by their scarf, merrily capering through the room, dashing under the scarves of the other teams and cutting corners at breakneck speed, with the parents dashing along behind in a desperate attempt to keep up. I was really only trying to find something fun to do with that really cool piece of jazzy music on the CD, All Around The Kitchen. But, what developed was a lesson in leadership.  The children had an opportunity to make decisions, and we helped them develop independence and competence.

Games such as Follow the Leader allow your child to decide how to navigate the play space for both of you, not just for themselves.  Whether that space is my classroom or the playground or the grocery store, letting them lead empowers your child to make a decision and act on it.

One of the most critical abilities a leader in any situation must exhibit is the ability to decide.  This skill can be nurtured in our children through the simple process of offering choices.  (The trick here is to make sure that all the options you offer are A-Okay with you!) So asking if your child wants to wear the blue shirt or the orange shirt is a great way to get them to practice making decisions.  Of course, they might want the red shirt- but that’s great, too.  Now, they are learning to negotiate.

Offering choices and playing games like Follow the Leader give our children a sense of ownership in their own lives. By offering them control of small things in appropriate situations, you will encounter less turmoil when the non-negotiable circumstances arise.  Because, let’s face it, Batman jammies with the under-the-sleeve scalloped cape are not appropriate garb for the ring bearer at Auntie Beth’s wedding.  And you just gotta hold hands in the parking lot. And you can’t eat chew that gum under the table at Starbucks…

There are so many areas of a child’s life that they cannot control. Giving them small amounts of power in relatively innocuous situations can truly help them grow up to be responsible, competent adults.

-posted by Miss Allison, whose boys never wore super-hero jammies in their Auntie Beth’s Wedding.  But they did wear them to the mall on more than one occasion, usually with rain boots, even though it was 85 degrees and sunny.   But they made people smile…. so how can that be bad?

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