I have a problem. I’m caught in the existential dilemma that many, if not most women face: I’m a dreamer, a self-starter, and someone who needs to be doing something at all times. I need people, challenge, and direction to feel fulfilled. And I have goals… too many goals. However, I also want to be a mommy one day, and a wonderful mommy at that. Herein lies the problem: for some reason, I have always seen having a thriving, fulfilling career and being a great mom as being incompatible. Being an all-or-nothing kind of person, it’s hard for me to understand how I could balance the two and be great at both.
But when I look around my classrooms, I see as many different ways of parenting as I do parents. Each of you bring so many wonderful things to the table because of your personalities, your backgrounds, and your talents. I see nurses and lawyers, business owners and teachers, psychologists and photographers, who are also mommies and daddies. I see stay-at-home moms and a few stay-at-home dads, and more than one stay-at-home grandma. I DON’T see a formula; I see real people doing the best they can at raising their children, and doing a phenomenal job. Parenting is messy, and you’re way, way down in the dirt.
Here’s my confession (please don’t tell my bosses): while I’m supposed to be teaching you how to parent, you’re really teaching me. When my day comes, I will be a better mommy; not because I stay home full time, and not because I’m a Kindermusik Educator, but because I have seen great parenting modeled for me over and over and over again by you. Thank you for showing me that it’s possible to be a terrific momma and a real, breathing, goal-pursuing person at the same time.
-written by Miss Katie, who is NOT pregnant, but thanks for asking. (At least she’d better not be…)




Nate and I met 3 years ago when I got involved with the worship ministry at my church (Bethany Community Church in Greenlake). His family has gone there his whole life and he was leading a worship band at that time. We were acquaintances for a couple of years, but when I became an intern at church, we started seeing more of each other and a bit of intrigue started to develop. In November 2007 we went to a worship leaders’ conference together and bonded over shared laughter at some of the more ridiculous aspects of the conference. That week he rallied the courage to ask me for coffee (via a very ambiguous email) and we went on our first date. After a few weeks of dating he wanted to make it “official” but I made him wait a few more weeks- I wanted to be sure. In January, I asked him to be my boyfriend because he had already asked me so many times I was sure he was getting sick of it!






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